By Tina L. Jones
Do you get goose bumps whenever he walks by and you're dreaming of making him fall in love with you? Does he wink and smile and make you feel all hot inside and you think you might have a chance with him? Are you afraid to say anything in case you're misinterpreting his winks and he just does that with everyone? Men can sometimes be sneaky. Some of them are aware of the power of their smile and they can easily abuse that power. But read on to find how to get a good man, and get that good man to love you.
1. Don't let him win you over with a simple smile, no matter how charming it is. If he's winking and smiling at you with ease, tell yourself this is a guy who's been down this road before. He winks, gets the girl, brings her to bed and moves on. Don't be that girl. If you want more from him, make him work for it. Smile back. Perhaps even wink at him yourself. But when he moves forward, hold back a bit. Let him know that you are not in a rush. It'll drive him crazy.
2. Those first dates you have with him, don't allow him to win and bring you to bed right away. Hold him at arms length and give him a chance to find out who you really are. Have fun conversations with him that will allow him to tell you what he's all about and give him a few tidbits about yourself. You want him to admire the woman you are and not simply see you as a sexual object. Show him you're smart and that you have high ambitions for you career. The more he can come to see you as a real and well rounded woman, the more he'll want to make a true bond with you.
3. By succeeding in keeping sex out of the picture for those first few dates, you've opened up a whole new door to him. The bond that is being created between you two will run deeper than just a romp in bed. There are deeper emotions and you're developing a relationship built on caring and trust. The longer you can hold off on the sex, (all while teasing him subtly, but mercilessly) the deeper this emotional bond will be. Then when you do finally go to bed with him, watch out. It'll be hot and filled with intense emotions.
Try out these tips and see where your love life takes you.
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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.
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