Everyone desires to experience love with others. It is the supreme glee to feel love. We all be acquainted with how to give love, but the hitch is when we don't know how to receive it. Not being able to receive love is a foremost reason for many of the dissatisfactions we face in relating with others. It is the same thing for anything that we give but seem to have tribulations receiving it in return. If we are able to receive love as much as we are able to give it, we will comprehensive the cycle of experiencing love with others for filled happiness.
We have been conditioned with the wrong beliefs that prevents us from receiving love. We think that it is arrogance to think highly of ourselves and expect others to think highly of us. That is why we do not openly receive compliments, adoration and all the gestures and expressions of love by others towards us. We spin away, try to conceal from it and respond in all kinds of ways just not to appear as being conceited, not knowing that we are actually rejecting the very love that is being given to us, than accepting it fully.
Be alert of how you respond to others when they are showing love to you. Do you get uncomfortable when others are staring at you and sending thoughts to make them stop staring at you? When someone tries to be further nice to you, are you unable to accept it because it feels creepy? When someone shows you adoration and praise, do you bashful away and in any way try to diminish their expression? How you respond is exactly how you luxury the love that people are giving to you whether you know it or not.
All the negative response that we make is the reason why we experience less and less expression of love from others. Each time they express love, we respond in a way that says "please don't show me love, I'm unable to receive it" and we doubt why other people get to receive all the love in the world but we don't. We are the extremely ones generating all that we experience from other people. We plan the way people treat us or don't treat us. We reinforce other people's behaviors negatively or positively.
Instead of rejecting love from others unknowingly when they show it, receive it. Do not just accept it but embrace it. When they perform extra nice to you, warmly receive them and show with the look in your eyes that you embrace their expression totally with admiration. When others compliment you, allow them to do so freely and thank them for it. Show that you see yourself as a person worthy of all the love that others can give to you, and that others are free and welcomed to give it to you when they do.
There are those are so good at receiving love. They are able to magnetize all the love from others wherever they go. They act as if they are the star and everybody likes them. They are always expecting love and adoration from everyone and are showing it in the way they behave to you. They converse to you as if you admire them, like them, adore them, love them and want them. You can almost feel that they're tugging on your heart strings and representation love from you to them. They emerge and behave as so lovable.
Your affiliation with love is mirrored in the external world in the way people respond to your love. Now you know why the ones whom you love and desire to express love to, can't seem to receive your love. It is because you can't receive love yourself. When others try to give you love, you unknowingly refuse it. When you give love to the ones you love, you unknowingly refuse them when they try to love you in return. When you can receive love from others, those you show love to can receive love from you.
Open yourself to love by allowing others the joy of loving you. Give them the gift of loving you by being lovable and attracting love from them. This is the magic key to making others love you and be able to show it to you. Allow them to express love to you in their action, words and expression, and having it well received. Our world will be so much more beautiful when others are able to express love to us and have us receive it fully, and we are also able to express love to others and have them receive it fully.
Some of us respond to love by an immediate counter expression of love. We are not really receiving the love when we give it back immediately. When someone says "I love you" to you, do not immediately respond with an "I love you" back at them. Take a moment to feel that love, receive it and let it sink in. Show that in your grin and the light in you eyes that you receive and appreciate it. Then out of the love that you feel, tell them that you love them. Do the same thing when responding to compliments.
In order to receive love from others, you must first be able to receive love from yourself. speak out mentally "I love myself" and then let the feeling of love generate from your heart part and expand to fill your entire being. Imagine a white light of love energy wrapped all over you on the inside and outside. Feel the love for yourself as you give it unconditionally and wholeheartedly. When you step into any place with the feeling of complete self love, you'll have an unassailable form that cannot be shaken by anyone.
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