Wednesday, July 16, 2008

Want To Know the Secret to Make Your Ex Return Your Call

Want to know a really cool secret? Would you like to know how to get your ex return your call? Are there 'magic' words you can use to get your ex to return your phone calls? Sounds hard to believe, but there ARE words that will nearly cast a spell and make your ex feel almost compelled to return your call.

Pretty cool huh...

There's a guy who going to share this with you because this is one of the biggest questions he gets from the over 35,000 subscribers just like you that are trying to put their relationship back together.

Yes, you read right 35,000 subscribers!

But he is going to answer..."How do I get my ex to return my phone call, text or IM?"

BUT...

*********** WARNING! ***********

In the Magic Of Making Up,he will lay out a complete strategy.

MAGIC OF MAKING UP

TAKE CAREFULL PRECAUTION!

He does strongly advise if you use this technique alone, without an 'overall' plan or strategy...you may damage your relationship more than if they never returned your call.

**************** What NOT to Say! ****************

Do not be confused, but before we get into the actual words, let's go over what message almost NEVER works.

And worse...

Puts you in an AWFUL 'psychological' position.

These usually fall into 2 categories.

The PLEAD- where the message sounds like "Jack, please, please call me. This is the 3rd time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you."

And the EMERGENCY-

"Mindy, this is an emergency. Please call me as soon as you get this." Now, I think you can see what is wrong with both of those approaches?

So, I won't go on and on...

************************************ How To Use Curiosity & Self Interest To Your Advantage ***********************************

Do you know what two of the most powerful forces in the human mind are? They are....

*Curiosity & *Self Interest

And here's the BIG SECRET!

A proven technique that, when you combine the two, you have a recipe that WILL work 'magic' so...

Let's look at what you can say that works nearly EVERY TIME.

Use a friendly tone of voice:

"Hi Jack. It's Mindy. I wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I want to thank you in person."

Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity and self-interest? Jack will NOT be able to resist! "What did I do?" "What does she appreciate?" he will be thinking. And he feels good because it is a positive message.

So now...

Before you call you need to do the "Set Up", which is figuring out what he/she did that you appreciate. It can be any small thing... but needs to be plausible.

But more importantly...

************ 2nd WARNING! ************

Please have an underlying strategy like he lays out in the Magic Of Making Up System BEFORE you call.

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If you apply this technique with no underlying strategy and they call you back, you can do more DAMAGE than good if you do not handle it correctly.

Got it huh!

Okay?

What I am saying is...What you do before, during and after you get them to return your call; is MORE important than getting them to return your call.

Make sense?

Have a PLAN!==>

MAGIC OF MAKING UP

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