Wednesday, July 16, 2008

Affiliation - Why Love Spins To Hate?


What are the feasible reasons of a beautiful loving affiliation turning to that of hatred? Does anybody recognize the response to this? I consider that many will speak that the relationship was never burly to begin with? What if I say that I have seen an affiliation that was as burly as a bank crypt and then crumbled down like a sludge house?

In the relationship I am chattering about one partner started facing problems because of her possess verdicts. She was having major value differences with the male where the male wanted her to converse about reality to the whole world but the female wanted to play hide and seek. This was causing her lot of anguish. She never tried to address the root cause but started blaming the male for all her problems. As the male was unable to persuade her about his perspective, which would have brought peace, all around after a epoch of turmoil but the female refused. She did not covet to face any turmoil. This affiliation lives in the heart of the man who thinks of the woman all the time, but the woman left him after cursing him of all the tribulations that were befalling her.

Relationships tumble down for dissimilar motives. Sometimes one partner needs to give more emphasis to career than the other desires. Some times one partner feels that the other is taking advantage. Suchlike the motive, the confidence in each other is lost. As soon as that occurs partners begin charging each other for everything. They even query the motive of their partner for doing something when they were in the stage of love. The past is dissected and poison is poured over loving reminiscences. That is the end of love and only hatred survives. Call this destiny or fate. No scrutiny helps in finding out the motives of demolition. That becomes a bigger pain.

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